Monday, October 22, 2012

Separation of church and...


Separation of church and State is an important “hot” topic which I am not going to address right now!  Why?  Because I think that there is an even more critical “separation” that needs to be discussed.  And that is, the separation of Church and Self. 

Today, I had an interesting conversation about Halloween with a co-worker.  She was talking about what kind of candy she should give out at Halloween this year.  After a few minutes of discussion, she eventually proclaimed, “Well, whatever it is at least I won’t be like one of those people who wraps literature around the candy they give out.”  I asked her to explain and she replied, “You know, they wrap religious literature around the candy bars.”  I countered, “Well, Halloween is not a day universally celebrated by Christians, so it makes sense they would try to inform people.”  She then said, “Yeah but…the kids just want candy and this isn’t the right time to be doing that.” An interesting comment she made,”not the right time.”  This implies there is a right and a wrong time to express your faith.  This is what I mean by the “Separation of Church and Self.”  Keeping your church, faith separated from the rest of your life. 

Unfortunately, due to work responsibilities we weren’t able to continue our conversation.  I’m guessing that if we had, she would have expanded that she believes that religious topics should be discussed only in church and perhaps only on a Sunday.  And based on how offended some people respond lately when someone mentions a religious belief during any other time of the week than Sunday morning, I think that she's expressing a fairly popular opinion.  “Keep your religion at church” or perhaps you’ve heard “keep your religion out of government”, or even “keep your religion out of schools.”  I can understand the concern.  I mean, I wouldn’t want our government, one that tends to fail at most things to get their hands around trying to manage a Federal religion!  But does this mean that we can only be faithful during church hours?   
I don't think practicing your religion means practicing it during specific times of the week.  A genuine Christ follower doesn’t have an on/off switch when it comes to living out their faith.  “Oh, it’s Christmas morning, better head to church to get my religious fix to cover me for the next year.”  No, that’s not it at all!  I just can’t picture God being happy to see His people ignoring Him all week long and then heading to church on Sunday “just to put their time in”.  He wants an ongoing relationship with each and every person on Earth through Christ Jesus.  Scripture is clear on this.  He doesn’t want you (or others) to put limits on your relationship with Him.  Scripture is clear on this too!  He wants to part the center of every aspect of your life.

Luke 10:27 says, "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind”

Luke 10:27 doesn’t say, Love the Lord your God on Sunday morning and with a portion of your soul and with a little strength and part of your mind.

I’ll admit that there was a time in my life that I didn’t understand why my religious beliefs needed to be part of my life other than the occasional Sunday morning.  I thought you just needed to believe that there is a God and that Jesus was a man who was God’s son and then I was all set on my pathway to heaven.  But there’s a difference between believing that there IS a God and believing IN God.  Check out James 2:19 “You believe that there is one God. Good! Even the demons believe that--and shudder.” 
A person can believe in the existence of God, but it takes a heart full of faith, love, submission and worship to live a life where you believe IN God and His plan of salvation and grace.  Once you get there, that will be the point where you can no longer understand the Separation of Church and Self.  It no longer makes sense.  How can your heart be so filled with love for the Lord, that at any point during your day or night that you can separate this out?  Just turn it off.  It’s not possible.  In fact, if you remove any portion of your love for God love out of your heart, you end up making room for something else.  Likely, it will be something that is the opposite of love, as in hate, fear, desire, and sin.  
Personally, I believe that there is no way you can discuss the Separation of Church and State until you no longer have Separation of Church and Self.   When you are no longer separating yourself from your faith, when you are truly living it 24/7 and when your entire heart belongs to God, to His glory…then everything else will fall in line.  Answers to those “hot topics” become crystal clear.  All you need to do is stop separating God out of your everyday life.  He has the answers.  He doesn’t want to just know you and guide you and have you love Him on Sunday.  He desires that each and every day!

1 John 3:1
See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God!  and that is what we are! 

Thursday, October 4, 2012

Roses, stop and smell them

Under pressure!
Priorities, priorities, priorities...are a huge topic of discussion lately. I sometimes hear people older than myself telling me about how when they were my age, things weren't quite as hectic.  I suppose they are right.  Look at how we are constantly trying to fit in as many activities in our already over-scheduled lives: family, work, school, kids, sports, meetings, social gatherings, business trips, etc. Last time I looked there were still only 24 hours in each day and we like to maximize each one of those hours.  I mean seriously, I'm writing this at 11:32pm!  But with all these distractions, just where does God fit?  Does He get shoved onto the back burner in your day-to-day priorities?  If I asked you to write down your life's priority list, what would it look like?


Maybe your priority list looks something like this;            Or perhaps like this one;
Family                                                                                       God
Career                                                                                       Family
Health                                                                                       Career
God                                                                                            Health
Money                                                                                       Money
Recreation                                                                              Education
Education                                                                                Recreation
Politics                                                                                      Politics
Charity                                                                                      Charity

One of my favorite sermons my Pastor preached about was Prioritizing God.  The main point of the sermon was that we shouldn't put God at the top of our priority list.  He should “BE” our list.  Everything on that list needs to be centered around God.  Everything.  The risk of “prioritizing” God (even if you put him at the top of the list) is that if something really important came up, God stands the risk of being bumped down the list.  Perhaps it would be a family illness, a loss of a job or severe financial stress.  We then tend to lose focus on Him, spend our time and energy on the circumstances of the situation and therefore bumping God down our priority list.  But by keeping Him at the center of everything on our list, the order can fluctuate, and He remains our source fo strength and firmly at the center.
                                                                                      family
                                                                    career                   charity
                                                                health          God             politics
                                                                   money                   education
                                                                                 recreation

Priorities = distractions
When a person has too many priorities, each is getting only a fraction of that person's attention.  Again, we still only are given 24 hours in a day.  Each priority acts as a distraction from the other priorities.  These multiple priorities and distractions are causing people to be too overscheduled and busy day and night.  The distractions are the things that take you away from what's really important, your personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ.  Think about it, if you lived on a deserted island with nothing more than a loin-cloth and banana leaves for shoes, you'd get to know God real quick.  With all of our modern distractions having been vanished away, you'd be able to focus completely on Him.

There isn't an App for that
So now we've established that priorities will yield distractions which can then weaken our relationships with God.  But what enables these distractions?  The great enabler for managing our busy lives (priorities) these days is our devices and the technology surrounding these devices: Smartphones, iPads, iPods, Playstations, Xbox 360s, wifi, 4G, streaming video, Netflix, Google, Facebook, GPS and apps.  You name it.  So where does God fit into all of this stuff?  Maybe God needs an App.  How can we find Him amidst the chaos of technology and our busy overscheduled lives?  Since everything else in our lives is taking up our attention, we can easily lose focus on God.  There is a good scripture about this very situation. Let me paraphrase, Matthew 14:22-32.  Peter was in a boat with the other disciples when they saw Jesus walking on the water.  Jesus told Peter to come to him.  Peter got out of the boat and started to walk towards Jesus.  But then he saw the wind he became afraid and began to sink.  Jesus then reached out his hand and grabbed Peter.  When Peter looked away from Jesus, he got scared and lost his way. He saw the wind, looked away from Jesus and sank.  Perhaps wind could equal anything that is taking your focus away from Jesus (aka a distraction)

A real turn off
This past summer I went camping, my wife and our two boys (5 & 8).  First time ever, we loaded up our little truck and set out for a tenting adventure.  TV, iThings, phones, computer, internet, cable, housework, laundry, yard work, job stress everything was left at home.  We went mid-week when almost no one else was there.  We set up our tent and our site, and then spent time enjoying the park.  We went hiking, fishing, walking in the creek, finding crayfish, bugs and fossils.  Later we roasted hot dogs over the open campfire.  Of course we had s’mores for dessert.  After telling silly stories around the fire (versus telling scary stories) we all climbed into the tent.  With little light, we improvised our normal bedtime book reading time with telling Bible stories to our boys. Everyone shared their favorite Bible story.  When we were finished, I saw that it was only 9:45pm...which is certainly not my regular bedtime!  Let's just say that it I had a rough time falling asleep!

3:14am is an actual time
I really dislike tent camping.  My theory is that I don't work all year just so that I can spend my vacation sleeping on the dirt.  But, as a parent, you have to make sacrifices sometimes!  I finally fell asleep somewhere around 11:00 - 11:30pm.  At some point in the night/morning a cold, clammy finger tip was poking my forehead..."Daaaad" I heard my oldest whisper to me, "I have to go to the bathroom."  My clock indicated the time was 3:14am.  Yes, a.m.  I fumbled around for the flashlight, then took him for a short walk to the bathroom area.  After he was finished, we headed back towards the tent.  That's when I noticed the night sky.  It was amazing!  It was completely full of stars and a magnificent full moon over head.  The air was warm and humid and the sounds of crickets and cicadas overwhelmed me.  We walked slowly back towards the camp on that stone park road.  I stopped and pointed to the moon and said to him, "look at that moon tonight, it's gorgeous...aren't those stars incredible?!"  My son looked up and said, "Wow!...it's so bright out but it's nighttime!"  We were both enjoying the fact that we could see our shadows on the road from the moon's light.  The fishing pond was like a sheet of glass and the meadow was covered in dew and fog.  We spent the next few minutes in awe of creation.  We were in awe of all of it all.  We stood in awe of God.  We talked about God and how he made all this beauty.  What a humbling experience for the both of us.  All of life's distractions were gone for those few moments.  It was just me and my son in complete amazement of the Father's creation.  It was unforgettable.

Sidebar
Kids get this.  They get God.  Their lives haven't been muddled up with distractions, skepticism, negativity, sarcasm, and doubt.  If you ever get a chance to talk to a child about God, I recommend it.  They have a faith that is so pure that you'll be amazed at it's simplicity and their unfaltering devotion.  Jesus knows this...

“...Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.  Truly I tell you, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.” -  Mark 10:14-16

Pump the brakes!
That camping experience was something I will never forget.  In fact, it's changed the way I look at things too.  I try to make more effort to stop and smell the roses or to stop and see the moon-shadow.  God wants us to worship him day and night.  Don't get me wrong, I like devices and things of the world too.  In fact, I just finished playing my electric guitar and am typing this blog on my laptop while listening to iTunes.  Once I am done, I might even go and watch a show on Netflix through my Xbox.  All I am saying is that maybe we need to pump the brakes, slow down, shut things off and spend time appreciating and acknowledging and giving thanks to God for His creation.

In case you’re wondering where the inspiration for this blog post came from, it came from God’s word…


1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.